Headed To A Holiday Gathering? Here’s 5 ‘Made In MN’ Tips For You

'Tis the season for holiday parties and family gatherings. Whether it's a casual app-sharing party or something more formal with your future in-laws, being polite and knowing that is expected of you as a guest can go a long way. Depending on whose party or gathering you are attending, you are probably going to need one of these tips. Here are 5 holiday gathering tips for you, dontcha know.

Show up on time… but not too on time

If the invitation says 5pm, show up around 5. If you are going to be later than 30 minutes, drop your host a text, as they were expecting you around 5, not 6 or 7. Getting to your destination too early can be an inconvenience for the host, as they are probably working on some last-minute tasks, and having to host guests before they are all ready is not what they want to be doing and will likely add some stress to the occasion.

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Bring something — and apologize for it

As a Minnesotan, I feel I am apologizing for everything just out of habit, but you should think about bringing your host a gift of some sort. Whether it's a bottle of wine, a dessert to share, or simply a thank-you note, being a gracious guest is your job, next to showing up.

Coats go where you’re told (and boots stay polite)

Being a guest at a holiday party in Minnesota will mean some sort of coat situation. Growing up, my bedroom was where all the coats were stored, as they didn't fit in the hall closet. Do yourself a favor and leave anything you won't immediately need out in the car, or have it in your pocket, as you'd hate to have to go and rummage like a raccoon through everyone else's coats to get what you need. Worse is if you've got to send a host looking. Also, remember to take your shoes or boots off and put them neatly together. (Is there anything worse than a shoe pile at the door?) If you get cold feet, I usually bring a pair of slippers to wear, after making sure with the host that it's alright.

The “Minnesota Goodbye” applies year-round

Chances are, when you are getting ready to go, you should note you probably aren't going to be as fast as Little St. Nick. If you are visiting with family you haven't seen in awhile chances are the Minnesota Goodbye will be implemented. Be flattered that they want to spend a few extra minutes with you, while you are putting on your coat and boots.

Avoid confrontation; embrace passive cheer

Take Minnesota Nice to heart around the dinner table or appetizer spread. While you might not agree with everything that is said, everyone is gathered to have a good time with each other. If you don't agree, smile and move on, or take a big bite of your aunt's famous Snickers salad.

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